09/18/2009

My First Gay Wedding

It seems hard to believe it hasn’t happened already, given my circle of friends, but I’m attending my first gay wedding this weekend. I’m looking forward to it for so many reasons. Cory, the groom, will always hold a special place in my heart, and Sean, the groom, is his perfect complement. So many friends will be there, and we’ll celebrate and drink, and laugh and dance.

The reason I’m most excited though, is that it will be the second wedding ever attended by my daughter. From her empirical perspective, sometimes girls marry boys, and sometimes boys marry boys. She has yet to witness a girl marrying a girl, but it’s only a matter of time.

When I attend my first gay wedding, I will be 39 years old. Grace will be 4. Should this trend continue, Grace’s potential child should attend her first gay wedding when she’s 146 days old.

Here’s to the grooms, and continuing trends.

UPDATE: Good friends, good food, good music, surprise guests. Best wedding ever. Best party ever.

09/15/2009

Excerpts from Thelonius Monk’s Notebook

Miles & Monk at Newport is one of my all-time favorite jazz records. I’m not nearly as well-versed in jazz as I would like to be, but this is really an incredible record, and I would encourage anyone reading this blog to give it a listen if you have the means.

Because I love this record so much, my interest was piqued when I ran across the scanned pages from a notebook belonging to Monk on the Internets a year or so ago. After reading the notes, I immediately printed them and tacked them up on the wall in my office. I’m transcribing them here, because although they’re written to musicians, there’s some profound wisdom here for everyone. Forgive a couple of edits made — concessions to the format that don’t change the meaning — I hope.  I recommend reading them slowly, one at a time.

Note: I’m normally quite critical of long blog posts, and this is longer than my usual.  I thought that in this case, since most of the words are not mine, that it was worth it.

Just because you’re not a drummer doesn’t mean that you don’t have to keep time.

Pat your foot and sing the melody in your head when you play. Stop playing all that bullshit, those weird notes, play the melody!

Make the drummer sound good.

Discrimination is important
You’ve got to dig it to dig it, you dig?

All reet!

Always know…(Monk→)

It must always be night, otherwise they wouldn’t need the lights.

Let’s LIFT THE BANDSTAND!!

I want to AVOID the HECKLERS.

Don’t play the piano part. I’m playing that. Don’t listen to me, I’m supposed to be accompanying you!

The inside of the tune (the bridge) is the part that makes the outside sound good.

Don’t play everything (or every time); let some things go by. Some music is just imagined. What you don’t play can be more important than what you do.

Always leave them wanting more.

A note can be as small as a pin or as big as the world, it depends on your imagination.

Stay in shape! Sometimes a musician waits for a gig, & when it comes he’s out of shape & can’t make it.

What should we wear tonight? Sharp as possible!

Don’t sound anybody for a gig, just be on the scene.

Those pieces were written so as to have something to play & to get cats interested enough to come to rehearsal.

You’ve got it!  If you don’t want to play, tell a joke or dance, but in any case, you got it! (to a drummer who didn’t want to solo.)

Whatever you think can’t be done, somebody will come along and do it.  A genius is the one most like himself.

They tried to get me to hate white people, but someone would always come along & spoil it.

Troubleshooting Google Analytics

When the Google Analytics widget numbers didn’t match the actual visits, I discovered that it was set to track popjack.net, instead of blog.popjack.net. This has been fixed, and analytics should be more accurate from here on out.

Thanks for all the visits; It turns out I’m .00001% less obscure than originally thought.

(As always, percentages are approximate)

09/13/2009

A fun, smart, Sunday morning read

I stumbled across this on Friday when I should have been working. It’s a comic about the design ideas behind Chrome, Google’s brilliant Web browser.  The text is by Google’s own engineers, adapted in the comic format by the wonderfully talented Scott McCloud.

It offers some great insight into Google’s simple and elegant design principles, as well as a quick education into how browsers do what they do.

Enjoy!

Link to Google’s Chrome comic

09/11/2009

A Question for 9/11

Assuming that you could prevent only one, and that the prevention of one would have no effect on the other, would you prevent the terrorist attack of eight years ago, or the election of George W. Bush in 2000?

09/10/2009

The Triumph of Good Enough

Ok, so I’ve wanted to have my blog up and running since I signed up with my new host, the phenomenal and highly recommended WebFaction. I was determined to roll my own blog engine using the phenomenal and highly recommended Django framework.

Wow, that would have been cool.

Alas, the ever-active cabal of time, work, responsibility and laziness conspired against me, and while I’m still working on Django, I’m tired of waiting for something longer than Twitter, and less frenetic than facebook.

Therefore, welcome to the new incarnation of my blog, built on Wordpress 2.8.4, which if you haven’t checked out yet, is really good, although not quite phenomenal or highly recommended. Here you’ll find my thoughts on technology, parenting, the world we live in, and life in general, if for some reason, you’re interested.

Here’s my promise — quick, frequent posts, hopefully thought-provoking and conversation-starting.

I have some brilliant friends, so I’m really looking forward to the comments.